xWiki 13 to 14 upgrade Deb 10 mysql-server missing

We are currently on xWIKI 13.10.10 via the apt method on debian 10 with package xwiki-tomcat8-mysql. I see there are updates available to v14 however I have packages held back due to mysql-server dependency missing for xwiki-mysql-common. Is this a bug? I know one common method of fixing this is switching to xwiki-tomcat8-mariadb however we’d like to avoid that.

xwiki-mysql-common now require a “real” MySQL Server as dependency because the MySQL connector does not always work that well with MariaDB (and the opposite).

Moving to xwiki-tomcat8-mariadb should not cause any problem since in practice the only thing which will change is the connector.